 | <DIV align=center><FONT size=4>EMOTIONS AND FEELINGS ::by:-SHARNJIT SINGH SAINI(<A href="mailto:sharn3@rediffmail.com">sharn3@rediffmail.com</A>) </FONT></DIV>
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<P align=center><FONT size=4>(GABDU)</P>
<DIV align=center><BR><BR>Love <BR>The night has a thousand eyes, <BR>And the day but one; <BR>Yet the light of the bright world dies, <BR>With the dying sun. <BR><BR>The mind has a thousand eyes, <BR>And the heart but one; <BR>Yet the light of a whole life dies, <BR>When love is done. <BR><BR><BR><BR><BR>SMS MESSAGES (LOVE) by:919815190304<BR><BR>1st time i saw u i was scared 2 touch u,1st time i touched u i was scared 2 kiss u,1st time i kiss u i was scared to luv u,but now dat i luv u im scared 2 lose u! <BR><BR>A special smile,a special face,a special someone i cant replace,i luv u i always will,uve filled a space no one can fill! <BR><BR>If luvs a disease den im very ill,but i dont want medicine,i wont take no pill,i will suffer dis illness cos it makes me see exactly how much u mean 2 me! <BR><BR>Wot u see as truth wot u see as lies remember that true friendship never dies,although we may change & drift apart,ill always value u deep within my heart! <BR><BR>Ur only mine wen i dream,wen i wake i wanna scream,ur not mine im all alone,i can only text u on my fone,do dreams lie or r dey true,i hope so cos babes i want u! <BR><BR>Girl ur clever,girl ur smart,girl ur like a work of art,girl ur sexy,girl ur fine,d only thing u aint is mine! <BR><BR>It takes 2 to tango,2 to kiss,2 to talk & remenisce,so many good things cum in 2,& one of those things is me & u! <BR><BR>True luv is hard 2 find,Special 1,1 of a kind,But the luv inside of me is true,It appeared the day i met you! <BR><BR>If dreams werent dreams & dreams came true,i woodnt b here id b wiv u,Distance is 1 thing dat keeps us apart,But ull always remain in my heart! <BR><BR>If i were a tear in ur eye, i wood roll down onto ur lips,But if u were a tear in my eye,i wood never cry as i wood be afraid 2 lose u! <BR><BR>As I lie awake in my bed,All sorts of thought run through my head,Like why do I love you as much as I do,Then I realise its because you are you <BR><BR>To live dis life i need a heartbeat,to have a heartbeat i need a heart,to have heart i need happiness,to have happiness i need u! <BR><BR>i asked God 4 a rose & he gave me a garden,i ask God 4 a drop of water & he gave me an ocean,i asked God 4 an angel &he gave me u! <BR><BR>Ull always be mine,4 now & 4ever,Ull always be mine,4 u r my treasure,Ull always be mine,Please tell me its true,Please be mine 4ever,ill always luv u! <BR><BR>U say u luv me & want 2 hold me tight,those words run thru my head day & nite,i dreamt u held me & made me see,dat 4ever 2gether we wood be! <BR><BR>1000 words 1 cood say,1000 wishes 1 cood pray,1000 miles legs cood walk,1000 sounds a mouth cood talk,1000 times ill b true,1000 ways 2 say i luv u! <BR><BR>Ive got ur bak & uve got mine,ill help u out netime,2 see u hurt,2 see u cry,makes me weep & wanna die,ill b right here,til d end,cos ur my luv & my bestfriend <BR><BR>Why do birds fall from da sky everytime u walk by? why do stars fall from da sky? cause like me they want 2 b near u! <BR><BR>If water was a kiss id send u the sea,if a hug was 1 leaf id send u a tree if luv were forever id send u eternity! <BR><BR>Kissing you baby is my dream,Im the strawberry & ur the cream,Handle me gently keep me real keen,U & i together babes is passion so extreme! <BR><BR>There are Tulips in my garden,there are Tulips in the park,but nothing is more be beautiful then our two lips meeting in the dark! <BR><BR>I believe that God above,created u for me to luv,he picked you out from all the rest,cos he knew id luv you the best! <BR><BR>There are 3 steps to happy happiness, 1 you, 2 me, 3 our hearts 4 eternity! <BR><BR>if ur askin if id hurt u,da ansa is neva.if ur askin if i luv u,da ansa is 4eva.if ur askin if i want u,da ansa is i do.if ur askin wot i value most,da ansa is u <BR><BR>A very special m8 of mine,in my heart all da time,to c u wiv a happy smile makes my life feel worthwhile,warm & carin ur feelins true,im glad i av a m8 like u! <BR><BR>Y do we close our eyes when we sleep, when we dream, when we kiss? this is becoz the most precious thing in the world is unseen.When i close my eyes i c u! <BR><BR>Dream a dream 2nite as u sleep, smile a smile 2morrow that u may keep, may all of ur dreams and wishes come true cause i could`nt find a better friend like u! <BR><BR>my eyes reacted, my mind was attracted, my heart was affected, 1000s were rejected, but U sexy were selected! <BR><BR>BREAK UP <BR><BR>I miss u wen ur far away,I think about u every nite & day,Even if we cant b 2gether,I will miss u now & forever! <BR><BR>Weve gone our own way,our lives grew apart,& weve made a life wiv another,but despite of how far apart we grew,2 me there still is no other! <BR><BR>So btween da miles & btween da years,its inevitable but its true,dat seasons may change & people may change but my heart always belonged 2 u! <BR><BR>FRIENDSHIP <BR><BR>There is a gift that gold cannot buy,a blessing dats rare & true,dats d gift of a wonderful friend like d friend dat i have in u! <BR><BR>Some 1 some where dreamz of ur smiles, and whilst thinking of u says life is worthwhile,so wen ur lonely remember its true,that some 1 some where is thinking of u. <BR><BR>R we friends or r we not,U told me once but i 4got,of all d m8s ive eva met,ur d 1 i wont 4get,& if i die b4 u do,i will go 2 heaven & wait 4 u! <BR><BR>God in heaven,God above,please protect the friend i love.Sent wiv a smile:),sealed with a kiss, i love my friend whos reading this xx <BR><BR>Dreams r2b 4goten,reality to b lived,desires 2b fulfilled,& destiny 2b reached,where it began,where will it end,friends from da start,friends til da end! <BR><BR>Friends r angels that come from above,sent by god 4 me 2 luv,so wen u r lonely,sad n blue remember ill be there for u!</FONT></DIV>
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<DIV align=center><FONT size=4>Deepak Jindal</FONT></DIV>
<DIV align=center><FONT size=4>90-10 Principle</FONT></DIV>
<DIV align=center><FONT size=4>Millions of people are suffering undeserved stress,<BR>trials, problems, and heartache. They never seem to<BR>be a success in life. Bad days follow bad days. <BR>Terrible things seem to be constantly happening.<BR>Theirs is constant stress, lack of joy, and broken<BR>relationships. Worry consumes time, anger breaks<BR>friendships, and life seems dreary and is not enjoyed<BR>to the full. Friends are lost. Life is a bore and<BR>often seems cruel. </FONT></DIV>
<DIV align=center><FONT size=4>Does this describe you? If so, do not be discouraged.<BR>You can be different!.</FONT></DIV>
<DIV align=center><FONT size=4>Understand and apply the 90/10 secrets. It will<BR>change your life! What is this secret?</FONT></DIV>
<DIV align=center><FONT size=4>10% of life is made up of what happens to you.<BR>90% of life is decided by how you react.</FONT></DIV>
<DIV align=center><FONT size=4>What does this mean? We really have no control over<BR>10% of what happens to us. We cannot top the car from<BR>breaking down. The plane may be late arriving, which<BR>throws our whole schedule off. A driver may cut us<BR>off in traffic. We have no control over this 10%.</FONT></DIV>
<DIV align=center><FONT size=4>The other 90% is different. You determine the other<BR>90%! How? By your reaction.</FONT></DIV>
<DIV align=center><FONT size=4>You cannot control a red light, but you can control<BR>your reaction. Don't let people fool you, YOU can<BR>control how you react!</FONT></DIV>
<DIV align=center><FONT size=4>Let's use an example. You're eating breakfast with<BR>your family. Your daughter knocks over a cup of<BR>coffee onto your business shirt. You have no control<BR>over what just happened. What happens next will be<BR>determined by how you react. You curse. You harshly<BR>scold your daughter for knocking the coffee cup over.<BR>She breaks down in tears. After scolding her, you turn<BR>to your spouse and criticize her for placing the cup<BR>to close to the edge of the table. A short verbal<BR>battle follows. You storm upstairs and change your<BR>shirt. Back downstairs you find your daughter has been<BR>too busy crying to finish breakfast and get ready for<BR>school.</FONT></DIV>
<DIV align=center><FONT size=4>She misses the bus. Your spouse must leave immediately<BR>for work. You rush to the car and drive your daughter<BR>to school. Because you are late, you drive 40 miles<BR>an hour in a 30 mph speed limit zone. After a 15<BR>minute delay and throwing $60 (traffic fine) away, you<BR>arrive at school. Your daughter runs to the building<BR>without saying good-bye. After arriving at the office<BR>20 minutes late, you find you forgot your briefcase.</FONT></DIV>
<DIV align=center><FONT size=4>Your day has started terrible. As it continues, it<BR>seems to get worse and worse. You look forward to<BR>going home. When you arrive home you find a small<BR>wedge in your relationship with your spouse and<BR>daughter.</FONT></DIV>
<DIV align=center><FONT size=4>Why? Because of how you reacted in the morning. Why<BR>did you have a bad day?</FONT></DIV>
<DIV align=center><FONT size=4> A) Did the coffee cause it?<BR> B) Did your daughter cause it?<BR> C) Did the Policeman cause it</FONT></DIV>
<DIV align=center><FONT size=4> D) Did you cause it?</FONT></DIV>
<DIV align=center><FONT size=4>the answer is D!.</FONT></DIV>
<DIV align=center><FONT size=4>You had no control over what happened with the coffee.<BR>How you reacted in those 5 seconds is what caused<BR>your bad day.</FONT></DIV>
<DIV align=center><FONT size=4>Here is what could have and should have happened.</FONT></DIV>
<DIV align=center><FONT size=4>Coffee splashes over you. Your daughter is about to<BR>cry. You gently say "It's OK honey, you just need to<BR>be more careful next time". Grabbing a towel you rush<BR>upstairs. After grabbing a new shirt and your<BR>briefcase.You come back down in time to look through<BR>the window and see your child getting on the bus. She<BR>turns waves. You and your spouse kiss before both go<BR>to work. You arrive 5 minutes early and<BR>cheerfully greet the staff. Your boss comments on how<BR>good of day you are having.</FONT></DIV>
<DIV align=center><FONT size=4>Notice the difference? Two different scenarios. Both<BR>started the same. Both ended different. Why? Because<BR>of how you REACTED.</FONT></DIV>
<DIV align=center><FONT size=4>You really do not have any control over 10% of what<BR>happens. The other 90% is determined by your reaction.</FONT></DIV>
<DIV align=center><FONT size=4>Here are some ways to apply the 90/10secret. If<BR>someone says something negative about you, do not be a<BR>sponge. Let the attack roll off like water on glass.<BR>You do not have to let the negative comment affect<BR>you! React properly and it will not ruin your day. A<BR>wrong reaction could result in losing a friend, being<BR>fired, getting stressed out, etc.</FONT></DIV>
<DIV align=center><FONT size=4>How do you react if someone cuts you off in traffic? <BR>Do you loose your temper? Pound the steering wheel? <BR>(A friend of mine had the steering wheel fall off!) Do<BR>you curse? Does your blood pressure skyrocket? Do you<BR>try and bump them? WHO CARES if you arrive ten seconds<BR>later at work? Why let the blue car ruin your drive.</FONT></DIV>
<DIV align=center><FONT size=4>Remember the 90-10 principle, and do not worry about<BR>it!</FONT></DIV>
<DIV align=center><FONT size=4>You are told you lost your job. Why lose sleep or get<BR>irritated? It will work out. Use your "worrying"<BR>energy and time into finding another job. The plane is<BR>late. It is going to mangle your schedule for the<BR>day. Why take out your frustration on the flight <BR>attendant? She has no control over what is going on.<BR>Use your time to study, to get to know the other<BR>passengers, etc. Why get stressed out? It will just<BR>make things worse.</FONT></DIV>
<DIV align=center><FONT size=4>You now know the 90-10 secret.</FONT></DIV>
<DIV align=center><FONT size=4>Apply it and you will be amazed at the results!!!</FONT></DIV>
<DIV align=center><FONT size=4>Regds, <BR>Deepak Jindal</FONT></DIV><FONT size=4>
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